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Friday, June 12, 2009

What is your opinion about loving each other? (yaarrkh!!!)


It has been a hell long since my last post and i have a feeling that no body reads my blog now. But it's ok.......things that make ourselves fun must go on........well, I have no idea of what to talk about but......emmm........juz talk la....

What is your opinion about loving each other?. Most of my friends here are 'coupling' (I don't know this word grammatically right or wrong). Most of them got their own love story. Sometimes those stories are quite funny. Some of them (maybe most) break with their ex whom they found at old schools and college, and they usually find a new one here. Some of them are still single since in the first place. and perhaps some of them anti with 'couple'. There're so many kinds of people. But as for me, at first I don't give a shit to this kind of thing, but when there are too many questions given to me, perhaps, I should do some homework about it.

I have a feeling that they are not serious enough in loving each other. And when there's a conflict between them, some of them are just thinking of an easy way (but stupid) to solve the problem, simple, just forget each other. hmmm.....I don't have experience in love story since i'm in "single since in the first place" group. perhaps I may not understand these people. but my point of view, when U like each other, u guyz got to be serious. This kind of 'bond' is not something that we can make fun of, but a relationship that we put trust with each other, a responsibility, an understanding, and most importantly something that we are ready to pay the cost of any consequence that might come.

What is the Islamic way of 'couple'?. I don't know what to comment about this question. sometimes it sounds stupid and dumb but people keep asking, so I juz answer la!!!! well, I heard a phrase saying that there is no couple in Islam instead of marriage. So, for those dumb people who ask me this question, I juz wanna tell u guyz that when u love someone juz get serious and make a target to marriage. be prepared to be a responsible person. Don't just eat together, go to cinema together, and sms each other. It's wasting time to love each other but you don't have a target for your bond. Sometimes it breaks somebodie's feeling when you are not serious. I have many male friends that like to make fun of women's feeling. ala.... you know la when males are limited and female are overload. They just use "pakai buang" method. They really piss me off. ape korang ingat pompuan ni xde prasaan ker? Same goes to females. Ape korang ingat laki ni hati solid ker?..........hahhh.....

Is it a sin to walk together, eat together, watching film together and bla bla bla? I wanna ask you back. Do you think I'm a God to know exactly whether what you are doing is a sin or not? well, i'm just a humble human. I cannot judge you a sinner or not. you're muslims. you should know the border of your doings. As far as I concern, when a muslimin and muslimat sit close to each other, but not doing anything wrong, it is not a sin. (correct me if I'm wrong). The sin happens when what u're doing lead to zina and fitna. So watchout what u're doing.

Actually, I don't want to write this post. I swear!! but people keep saying I'm a lazy and useless IMAN (Islamic Malaysia Association) member. I guess it can't be help. I'll do it. It's very very very menggelikan.....yaarrrrkhh!!!!!

53 comments:

I Don't Believe in Love said...

Yay, another post!

I kinda agree with you in there, but marriages are the last legal form of SLAVERY. Deciding to get married is not an easy matter, so don't expect much from them lar.

;)

cool boy on June 13, 2009 at 2:11 AM said...

bereh bos..aku sokong mu..

HaFa on June 14, 2009 at 4:19 AM said...

yeah.....perhaps it's kinda hard to encourage them to get married since the prevalence of 'couple' is quite high and people tend follow the majority. But what does it mean by marriage = slavery. doesn't make sense at all. the way u talk seems like u're not a muslim. or perhaps u're girl who has been disappointed. he he....just wondering......apology.

I Don't Believe in Love said...

Nope, I'm a pessimistic REALIST.

What for, do you need to 'couple'?
Why do even have to worry about it?

Even marriages tend to break, at least you can get money out of it.

But 'couple'? Oh yea, there's no profit eh? More waste.

Let misfits be misfits, it's a colourful world!
;p

HaFa on June 15, 2009 at 9:52 AM said...

it's very though to understand people like you.Well, I'm trying.....

When you evaluate something, try not to make your experience or emotion as the field of giving points. Sometimes, people's judgment may wrong. Marriage is not as simply as something to allow sex,kissing, or having babies. But it's something far beyond those. A bond that exists when people thrust,believe,and confident with each other.

Perhaps you may not change your point of view in the present time. But believe me, you would, when the time come at which you find someone who can understand you.

I Don't Believe in Love said...

ROTFL

Right back at ya'!!
That's just your view,
but then again..

No wonder you are SINGLE!

Fairytales are for babies, and so are your values about marriage.

westwind said...

im against the MARRIAGE as well as i agree it's a RUTHLESS form of SLAVERY...to the guys,of course

what i've heard recently r pretty SHOCKING n probably some of us knew about it already.in ISLAM the husband have to do all jobs,while the spouse?to give birth THAT'S ALL?is it fair?i doubt that.

however,im SCEPTICAL about it...who's gonna married if that's TRUE?is ISLAM really the way of life?POLISH ME!

I Don't Believe in Love said...

Phhffft, are you stupid or sumfink?

How can you call marriage as a ruthless form of slavery? OMG, i think you should be transported back in time to see the slaves back then. PYRAMIDS, TAJ MAHAL, PROSTITUTES, ADOLF HITLER.

Or should i put you on leash, like a mangy ol' dog and let you UNDERSTAND the meaning of ruthless? ;)

Theoretically, the husband should be responsible of the well being of the wife since after all, he did BUY her.
MAS KAHWIN.

>.> Don't blame MARRIAGE, Blame your RETARDED brain for marrying in the 1st place.

P/s: I'm not WESTWIND. I'm sweet ;p

HaFa on June 17, 2009 at 4:18 AM said...

Oh God!

I was right to make this blog in the first place after all.

You planned this on purpose coz You want me to meet these two psycos who don't understand Your religion and marriages. Don't You?

I'm deeply,humbly,HONOURLY thankful to You coz You created me to this world as a gift to two people who loves each other.

Well then, moron is still a moron no wonder what kind of age he/she transported to.

I'm wondering did your papa bought your mama? was your dad your mother's slave, vice versa? are you a mere product of business? I don't think so. So, where did you left ya brains?

Guyz, learn from Quran and books. Don't follow ya dumb personal judgement. It's dumbing.

apology.

westwind on June 17, 2009 at 4:55 AM said...

to IDBinlove:ur phonetic BARKS doesnt count u lil HO! TWWee' endeavour for an ANS not for ur BULKY ANGs!

to HaFa:thanks fella,im a MUSLIM too...'2 peoples who loves each other'??u should get ur brain SOAK 1st..wif a ROTTEN PUKE!plus LINOLEUM!

I Don't Believe in Love said...

To west: If you are trying to cuss' me, at least do it properly. Your words are wrongly used, pls check the dictionary.

To owner: Check the dictionary too,
BUY = to get something by using money.
If i'm not mistaken, MAS KAHWIN is MONEY.

Don't get emotional, this is just ME. ;)

westwind on June 17, 2009 at 5:54 AM said...

to BLUFF:ever heard of VULGAR words?or maybe PASAR words?gimme a BREAK!

I Don't Believe in Love said...

OoooHHH, someone is piping hot!

Like i said, just check it again. You are not using it PROPERLY.

Don't get angry at me, get EVEN!
I'm dark and cynical, don't expect some child's play is enough to pawn me. I'm quite happy, you see.

westwind on June 17, 2009 at 6:57 AM said...

'u can lead a horse to water,but u CAN'T make it drink'

who CARES?i dont EVEN know u,ECCENTRIC WHACKO!

HaFa on June 17, 2009 at 7:06 AM said...

to westwind........ using something bombastic to cover your holes??? ha ha ha ha......we're in the same boat then...so let's get improving!!!! bdw, I don't get your words regarding ya "chemical reactions" up there.....u did it to yaself don't you? that's why u're a little ....ops...ha ha....

to IDBIL, mas kahwin~buy? ha ha ha ha ha.....u're making my day......I don't think that word suits. Yes, we do use money in marriage.......but, the word "buy" is like some sort of business......zzzzzzz...

I Don't Believe in Love said...

Yay, at last. The word i've been waiting for.

;) I do take that as a compliment.

Wonder what are you so angry about???

I Don't Believe in Love said...

Well, OWNER..

Try look up in the dictionary.
Buy = to get something by using money. So, i'm still in the right path.

Marriage can be a business too, ya' know.
Many ppl married for ambition, instead of petty love.
From there, they built strong,influential familial ties.

HaFa on June 18, 2009 at 3:14 AM said...

sigh....

somebody got it wrong here........do I look like angry? ...zzzzzzz............yeah2 we'll have it your way.....buy=to get something by using money........oh ya.....let say I want to marry you and at the same time I wanna buy a car.....both cost RM 20 000 each. are you just as worthy as a car? the two "buys" here have the same meaning?

bdw, u're right about the business-bonded families. We got plenty of them nowadays. emmm.....r u one of them?....sorry......

I Don't Believe in Love said...

==" Didn't say you are the angry one.

Technically, it does have the same meaning.
When you buy something, you use them. A wife has many uses.
And when you don't want them, SELL em' to get money. Mas kahwin is given back when divorce occur, is it not?

Just because you don't like the word, doesn't mean it's not true.

Haven't decide yet, I might marry for AMBITION.
And I'm expensive!

Huda A.M. said...

ape ni??????? sebagai miss emo 2 tahun berturut-turut, aku rase bagai nak bersara seumur idop.. mas kawen tu bukan satu bentuk adiah ke? beli amende pulak.. dah2 ignore je la aku. sebab aku pun x paham issue apekah ini. so from I don't believe in love post june 18 3:30 AM, i concluded, that die pompuan.. ngehehehe.. jangan marah sume, nak rampas takhta ke?? hehehe

I Don't Believe in Love said...

Nope,

I'm a SHEMALE !!

;p

HaFa on June 18, 2009 at 5:10 AM said...

WHAT?????!!!!! U're such a creature???!!!!

oh!! no wonder you can't understand love after all....let alone believe in it.......up la...have it your way......

about the mas kahwin.......eat your own words, kiddy...

p/s: it's not working between us....ha ha ha ha ha ha...........yarkh!!!!!!

I Don't Believe in Love said...

;)
Can't blame someone who doesn't know for not knowing.

That's just RUDE!

Mr. OWNER, Don't cower yourself behind a women.
You din know it too coz you were focusing on the money factor/buy. OoooH, i played you GOOD!

Mas Kahwin is a symbol of the husband's acceptance to take care of the wife. Usually in the form of money but at a given circumstances, an Iron ring will do.

HaFa on June 18, 2009 at 7:12 AM said...

Owh?!....you did?.....I were just making fun after all ya know......ha ha....Hope u're not one of such.

emmm......about your last paragraph......you got a good point there.....perhaps you do understand love. It's just a matter of self ego maybe. I was wrong about you......ha ha......:)

I Don't Believe in Love said...

I never said LOVE doesn't exist.

I just don't like it!

It's not PROFITABLE.

HaFa on June 18, 2009 at 8:33 AM said...

then just lov ya self....until you find one that you can love.........zzzzzzz.....

I Don't Believe in Love said...

Out of the question!

I'm a SELFLESS ANGEL

Huda A.M. said...

SHEMALE? ok..whatever you say lorh. emm.. love kene profitable ke? tak adventure la cenggitu. Everything would be so in plan, so predictable. Not asking 4 a fairytale thingy, but love is comforting~ aiyookk.. terjiwengs plak akhir2 ni..~

dundeepurple on June 18, 2009 at 10:43 AM said...

bribing also can be done by -giving money-
gifts can also be in a form of money

so,mas kahwin is not buying la
it's the idea of giving the money to yr newly wedded to give relief to her (becoz she's going to b separated from her family.)

hence,the name MAS KAHWIN. baka

I Don't Believe in Love said...

Love is a nuisance due to emotional attachment.

I just like letting go~~ What's the point of having billions of ppl when you only want to SCREW one?

Go read dictionary about the word BUY!
Are you blind? Read the above!
Money To Get SOmething = BUY

Don't cloud your self up, just because IT doesn't sound SWEET.

westwind on June 18, 2009 at 1:41 PM said...

to idBLUFF: why r u so EMOTIONALLY labile wif d word BUY?

oh i get it, maybe u can't BUY love :p

too bad for u, baby!

I Don't Believe in Love said...

Lol

I'm annoyed, it was clearly written several times earlier on.

Then again, maybe she's really BLIND. Ever heard of BRAILLE? Try it!

That's interesting, are you SELLING? It seems cheap coming from you!

HaFa on June 18, 2009 at 10:29 PM said...

DBKL, like I said. u're making people laugh. Well, pity you......I'm afraid this is not your world......if you still gonna stick with the idea of yours, you gonna need to make your own.

But still, there're plenty out there with the same perception like you. Glad to know what's inside the head of people of your kind.

I Don't Believe in Love said...

Yeah?

I'm glad to SHARE. Like i said, it's a colourful world!
I don't expect you to be like me, And i certainly wouldn't be caught DEAD being YOU.

;) Laughter is the best medicine.

HaFa on June 19, 2009 at 12:46 AM said...

ha ha ha.....same here dude. Guess who'll make the last joke.

I Don't Believe in Love said...

New POST pls!!

;) or shall we continue on this?

westwind on June 19, 2009 at 1:51 AM said...

to idBLUFF: there's an EXCEPTION for u.laughter just doesnt work anyMORE. maybe antiPSYCHOTIC or antiDEPRESSANT, like CARBAMAZEPINE did. wanna BUY some?

rolling on da FLOOR~

HaFa on June 19, 2009 at 1:55 AM said...

I was just about to say that........wait la........I want them to calm down first....then I'll give the next blow......juz be patient....for the time being we juz show up in other's blogs...maybe till couple of days....got no idea now.

Huda A.M. said...

alamak.. love IS an emotional attachment. Fitrah la tu. There's nothing pure good , pure evil. So if love hurts, what is not normal about it. Nak perfection in love, only with Allah jela. Kalau ngan manusia, of course you'll get hurt sometimes, manusia tak perfect. Then if money=buy, and not feeling ok with money being mas kawen, then ko kasik jela mas kawen Quran ke. Bes citer.

Yang penting, have faith, love is also God Almighty's creation. Who r we to condemn and abandon love, a humanly fitrah? Have faith, have faith...~ ok over n out.

Huda A.M. said...

jap2x. last kay.. please do not say mas kawen=money=buy a wife. Sebab for me, you have insulted everyone who got married, that include our parents, our grandparents,our forefathers, brothers, sisters, neighbors, friends, and the rest.

Anonymous said...

isn't mas kahwin is mahar?? which is one of the rukun nikah??? hmm...

agree with huda A.M --> mas kahwin is sumthng like gift...

sedih when sumone out there think that mas kahwin is to "buy a woman" instead of "appreciate that woman"...is it the price of being a woman?? that's how u measure the pride of a woman?? huh..soBsoB..

Anonymous said...

correction..my mistake, not sure mahar is one of the rukun or not, juz to let men know that maskahwin is wajib...

I Don't Believe in Love said...

Look, I didn't know this is a BLIND-BLOG-CONVENTION or something.

So many BLIND ppl or is that they fail to have the ability to READ?
Go back kindergarten, children!

My comment on June 18th, 6.42am was my final statement abt MAS KAHWIN.

And DUM DUM, FYi I was kidding abt the Mas Kahwin as equivalent to BUYing a WIFE.

Huda A.M. on June 19, 2009 at 7:39 AM said...

yela2 I dont believe in love. Like i said in the other blog, jangan bergurau sesuke ati je. especially when u sound harsh. You really have sick sense of humor. I'm blind? Fine by me.

I Don't Believe in Love said...

Err HUDA,

Wasn't referring to you.
;)

I Don't Believe in Love said...

To west ---
No matter how psychotic i am, or depressed,
I'm still SPECIAL !

Say NO to drugs! ;p

HaFa on June 19, 2009 at 7:59 PM said...

wo wo wo.......it's hot in here either.....relax girlz...

DBKL, told you already........let's just say buy is not same with getting something with money when it comes to marriage matter. Even if you got thousands of dictionary to say so.

it's not like you're wrong. it just because people can't accept it at all. You play with honour of a woman. like I said, this is not your planet.

An alien like you might take it hard to face ......he he he....peace for all. :>

I Don't Believe in Love said...

OMG, IT IS a BLIND-BLOG-convention!

Please read previously, I'm tired of explaining.

westwind on June 19, 2009 at 11:37 PM said...

to idBLUFF: what's the point if we can READ but we dont UNDERSTAND?


plus ur IMMATURED behavior, ALL simple thing can turns COMPLEX. PERIOD.

grin~

HaFa on June 20, 2009 at 3:29 AM said...

I'm also tired of understanding of something non-understandable.......someone, new post please!

peace for all..........:>

I Don't Believe in Love said...

Well, at least!

YOU understood, ;)
Another compliment. How ODD, you do LIKE me.

Huda A.M. on June 20, 2009 at 8:34 AM said...

ok. aku post yg baru, mri berbincang macam mane nak naikkan GPA ... wahahahaha...

Martinjsrs on October 25, 2012 at 8:15 PM said...

ROTFL Right back at ya'!! That's just your view, but then again.. No wonder you are SINGLE! Fairytales are for babies, and so are your values about marriage.

 

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